Emotionally Unstable
Our emotions must stay normal, not above or below normal!
Normalcy is like when actors act in theater or movie. For instance, a good husband in this play treats his wife well and also behaves like such. He said things that are positive to her which made her joyous. On arrival from one of his business trips, he told his wife that “I miss you and dislike staying away from you.”
“Thus the husband and wife acted out so well, it brought about joy in everybody’s hearts who saw them,” the audience!
You can do similar actions in your private lives. This makes everyone in your family happy. More importantly, it frees you from the chains of emotional dependency on co-dependency.
Intelligence leads to emotion according to Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan. If this train were to get emotional? It would cause accidents and kill many people right? The same way when humans become emotional countless organisms within us die therefore keep ‘moving’.
How would it have been if the train driver got emotional? It would result into train collision killing only two three people isn’t it? We are answerable for this case. Therefore, acknowledge your duties and remain on track.
Don’t be sentimental; Be pure Love!
When individuals say they love each other they usually refer to emotions resulting out of attraction as well as attachment towards each other. While emontions increase and decrease by their own nature over time; but pure love is perpetual; neither increasing nor decreasing.
Where there is pure love , their actions will not hurt anyone’s feelings at all . Even his words do not hurt, but are always without error . Nobody was touched by anything he said because he had true love for everyone! How does pure love arise? read
In just two hours emotional dependence can be freed and repaired interdependent relationship
Let’s see how…
Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan achieved self-realization in 1958! He is married and a businessman by profession. During his entire life, he took very good care of his wife. After that, his wife lost her sight in one eye. But this had no effect on him at all as he had become pure love itself after the awakening of the Self. He now doesn’t have emotions but has pure love!
He lived a life of idealism and gave such an art to the common masses also among them men who are ordinary can maintain a happy, peaceful and harmonious relationship with everyone with minimal changes in their external behavior which results into maximum benefits concerning healthy relationships. how?
Achieve it for yourself and learn proper understanding for your real life.
What is self-actualization? How can emotional dependence be solved?
Did you remember that we are all “pure souls”? And our soul is “pure love”!
From ignorance, ‘Who am I?’ we think we are this body or the name of this body. As a result, we become attached and emotionally dependent on anyone who makes us feel extraordinary emotions. They also provoke hatred against those with whom we have negative emotions such as anger, jealousy, envy, sadness and so on.
The nature of emotion is such that it inevitably leads to more and more pain in life. However, if somehow we could eliminate ignorance and truly know that ‘I am a pure soul’, then there can be an escape from all sufferings. Want to know more about self-actualization? read
Our best luck…
Following his self-realisation Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan also acquired special divine power through which he was empowered to impart self-realisation to people at large. Before his death he also blessed Pujya Deepakbhai with these divine powers. Therefore by the direct grace of this living wisdom nani; you cannot miss attaining self-realization today!
Nani’s heart is full of compassion for us; she removes the darkness of ignorance from our hearts and gives us true knowledge about our Self. His sole wish or heartfelt desire is to remove all pain from our lives by introducing us to our true self – the soul – where eternal bliss resides. So this doesn’t cost anything; it is free self-realization that we get!
After being self-realised through remaining in his company and following his teachings, you will see for yourself your emotional dependence has dwindled gradually over time as you learn how to immerse yourself into the awareness that I am a pure soul again. This has slowly disappeared as well as your codependency.
Externally however you still live a normal life but now real love emanating from your heart starts to heal the problem forever. Moreover, you begin seeing the same pure soul as you do in your partner! Therefore it’s easy for you to make changes and remain lovingly connected with them; your co-dependent relationships are intact within your close circle of friends or family. Now you know never to harm him/her in the least since that will evoke similar intentions in your partner.
Praying towards a pure soul is magic
If we still find ourselves going on with emotional dependence, don’t worry!
Instead, spend 10-15 minutes every day praying to his/her pure soul. At that time we will definitely find a solution to the “emotion” related problems. Praying to your spouse’s pure soul works like magic; indeed it has solved many people’s issues with their families and they no longer have any emotional baggage over their heads anymore!
I pray and hope we all may be healed soon through this simple and untainted way!
Author: Dada Bhagwan
