In Yulin, a southern city of China, the punishment given to a three-year-old girl called Jiajia by her father following her excessive watching of television has sparked debate. On this particular occasion as he was preparing dinner the father raised his voice calling his daughter to come to the table but she didn’t hear him because she was so engrossed in watching TV.
Angry with Jiajia’s behavior, the father switched off the TV causing her to burst into tears. In addition to that he brought an empty big bowl and told her “when this bowl is full of your tears you can watch TV again”. South China Morning Post cited that at this time, Jiajia’s mother took a clip of what happened where Jiajia placed the dish directly underneath her face trying to collect her tears while also contracting her eyes and making them smaller.
After 10 seconds she complained about having tired hands from holding an empty bowl and found the task impracticable.
Accordingly, he requested Jiajia for a smile which caused amusement on both parents’ part when they saw their girl grinning through tears. The video which was uploaded onto Douyin went viral receiving 220K likes tagging alongside varying comments from viewers who thought Jiajia was cute while others criticized how strict her father is.
Have you ever heard stories concerning extreme cases of parenting in China? There are some parents who make their children learn major life experience through being brutal while others pamper them too much. In Hubei Province during 2022, one dad asked his 11-year-old girl to dig out lotus roots under hot sun so as to appreciate education.
Nevertheless earlier this year in Shanxi province a well-to-do dad knelt before his teenage daughter publicly requesting for forgiveness due to his inability to buy an iPhone for her.